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facebook too much trouble
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Jamirul
 
By Jamirul
Published on 10/28/2009
 
isn't Facebook stressful when so many friend are logged in and you don't know who to message to. if you are late they might get offended. if you are chatting with someone else they might feel like left out.

facebook too much trouble
Facebook was cool at first but it is now a drag. The problem with Facebook is that it shows everything you do. If you are messaging someone it will tell everyone online. In life, you can talk to one person at first, or talk in a group. But in Facebook, you have to talk to so many different people at once. There is so many different friend and not everyone will share a group discussion. People have different topic to discuss and someone feel left out. I think Facebook is not perfect but it is bothering to be able to message to a lot of people at once. It might throw one conversation off and make you feel like you don't care.

I like Myspace because it shows you how people moods are. But I only use Facebook because most of my friend has Facebook.

I also do not like how the Facebook never tell you how old the picture is. I think people judge the picture to much when talking to someone. Maybe somebody is happy in the picture, does not mean they are happy right now. I am not saying the picture is wrong, just it does effect conversation. I believe Facebook should have webcam instead and also group circle discussion where everyone can have a conversation.

I believe lot of people has like hundred of friend and it is not right to avoid talking to most of them. When I go online, I feel like I should talk to everyone online or it is like ignoring people. In real life, you can introduce people to other friend and start a conversation as group. In Facebook, people are less like to get acquaintance to new people. I think you should be able to know who is online before logging in so you don't have to waste to much time. I go to Facebook for 30 minutes and en d up talking for couple of hour. Also, it is annoying how people take so long to respond. In real life, you don't have to wait that long to talk to someone, cause we can leave.

Final problem I have with Facebook is it is too positive. I figure out one of my friend got rid of me as friend couple days later. It also do not tell you if someone reject your friend request. Facebook people avoid any kind of negativity and in real life people do have conflict. So, I suggest do not use Facebook a lot, instead talk face to face or webcam. I do not know much about webcam but never heard anything positive about it. Probably have problem to.